When you look at a person, you take into account their facial features, their style, and the way they talk to gauge their level of attractiveness.

Many people argue that attractiveness varies from person to person—some people have an affinity for certain physical traits while others look for key psychological traits. In theory, there are some general rules that define attractiveness for a person.

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This is where science jumps in with its methodologies to help you understand exactly why you’re attracted to someone.

Here are some science-based tips that are definitely going to make you turn heads the next time you’re out and about.

1. Sense of Humor

If you are ever in a group and making conversation, you’ll find yourself most attracted towards the funniest person in the group. Research conducted by Daniel Doerksen states that people who don’t have a good sense of humor are perceived as less attractive. While both men and women are attracted towards funny people, it is, in fact, women who tend to find a partner more attractive simply because of their sense of humor.

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2. Take It Easy

Research conducted in 2014 stated that positive traits in someone’s personality are considered to be desirable and thus deemed attractive. So, being kind, compassionate, and considerate are key traits that are going to make you more attractive whereas showcasing negative traits such as anger, arrogance, and harshness can have an opposite effect. A better approach would be to take a calm stance even during difficult situations. This will not only help you think clearly but you just might end up in someone’s good books.

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3. Listening Skills

The University of Melbourne conducted an in-depth study of moths and applied their research findings on the social interactions between human beings. The study shows that female moths release a low dosage of pheromones that is only picked up by male moths with long antennae. This results in male moths with shorter antennae not being able to mate with the female moths because they are not able to track these pheromones.

When the study was applied to humans, it showed that women prefer people who are good listeners and can take note of subtle hints such as flirting or communicating. Anyone who listens keenly can probably pick up these hints and respond accordingly.